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Continued 2 The fact that you dont understand the very structure and
function of your body speaks of your lack of intellegence. Even worse you
are willing to attribute credibility to the explanation from the gay memes
idiology, for no logical reson. The APA was lobbied by a gay jew called
Kameny, not through scientific evidence. Indeed Kinsey a high ranking gay
neurologist, provided evidence later in the 90s which is considered
incredibly stupid and wrong today (and even by standards back then)
‘homophobe’ is a signifier which she and most others in the west use to
refer to an individual who expresses an irrational resistance to
non-heteronormative sexual identities. it’s suffix ‘phobe’ is linked to
that irrationality. you used the term in your post yourself. clearly it
exists. there are only two sexes according to science, speaking narrowly.
gender is a social construct, not a scientific fact. a woman does not wear
a dress because of her biology, it is a cultural trope, as is gender.
no, by signifier i refer to one half of the dyadic model of the sign, as it
is defined by saussure and as it is understood in semiological terms. the
word is a signifier which is commonly understood in our language to signify
a particular cultural concept. it is true that the suffix phobia signifies
an irrational fear, and that there is no rational basis for homophobia
gender has a basis in physical sex, but is a construct. we all defy our
evolutionary purpose everyday. you lack compassion.
homosexuality is a culturally universal, historically documented,
scientifically studied phenomenon. when i say culturally universal… it is
historically documented as having been an accepted practice in classical
greece, in traditional samurai culture (see nanshoku), in the native
american tradition (see two-spirit), in native african (particularly
egyptian) culture, in the cut sleeve culture of ancient china. and in every
society you can conceive of. i will continue…
Continued 4 (theres another comment before this one) This led me to this
conclusion: The law bares no resemblance to its original form / function,
within the meaning of words themselves. In short, they have manipulated
language to manipulate us. This is due to authoritarianism, lack of self
dicipline. Example: the word ‘Must’ is synonymus with ‘May’ in law. But how
often have you seen a sign or something saying you Must, carry a train
ticket? >logic isn’t something one does. Illogical.
By signifier you mean propaganda with no scientific evidence behind it.
>irrational Branding people irrational does not make it true. >it is a
cultural trope, as is gender. Nope, gender is based on sex. Your saying
that the person can change this as they please, but this goes against the
purpose of their body. It is a meme, a mental derrangment of their
evolutionary purpose, spread by the emotionaly unstable who had their
sexual identity challanged, have lusts which create operant conditioning.
semiology is a linguistic theory used by academics to better understand the
functions and processes of communicative methods. your ignorance is not an
argument against its validity. i don’t need to change the definition, it
already exists. all language shapes society, this is inherent. gender is a
human concept which does not exist physically. our conception of gender may
be influenced by our sex, but it is a cultural interpretation of these
physical characteristics, and is thus constructed.
Uses term: homophobe which doesnt exist. I suppose an athiest must be a
christophobe. Judges the whole world by other peoples perceptions and if
they can make their friends accept it, it must be ok. Right? >Gender
expression Theres only 2 genders according to science. Stop trying to
rewriting history. >Pressure on women to fit certain moulds Gayness is a
meme. Gender is not. Its physical. You say you feel pressure yet you also
say you come out to everyone all the time. This spreads the meme.
The title is: Letting Go of the Stories We Create for Ourselves But gayness
is the only story here. Lets not forget that it is a two way street, gays
become straight. It is not natural it is entirly psychological. And just
like a fictional story, it fights to replace the truth, to talk over it, to
ignore it, to brand all those who do not accept its ideology as phobic.
Just because mistaken ideologies are repulsive to them These people dont
have any scientific credibility, and they never did.
dictionaries are distributed by companies… they are collated by academics
and researchers who are peer reviewed, who are trained in their field, and
who are trained linguists. you say a dictionary is not a credible source…
then why are you writing any words at all? aren’t all of them as
meaningless and as wily? i present the evidence that exists, people will
believe what they choose to. logic isn’t something one does. logic is the
concept your brain is starved of.
She gives me so much hope and I’m a gay man
>we all defy our evolutionary purpose everyday. Broad generalisation But
yes, many people do defy evolution. I wouldnt trust you to pick out what
these are accuratly, but they do exist. It is these people who create the
discord in society. They are sociopaths and psychopaths. Which is what
gayness is. They want to be successfull, but they cannot be, because they
have changed their nature to that of an artificial environment. >you lack
compassion. I do not put it before understanding. Do you?
she is super nova gay.
…You wanna know the truth? Then i’ll explain it to you. Theres a movment
called freeman on the land. They do legal research to try and improve their
rights. One method they use is comparing legal words of modern laws to old
legal dictionaries and new ones. As you might expect, this breaks the laws
down. Sometimes aiding understanding, but most of the time you realise,
that the new dictionaries just solidify the mostly deliberate
missinterpretations by judges & new laws due to authoritrianism.
i am a vegetarian, i defy my evolutionary predisposition to be omnivorous.
i defy the evolutionary purpose of body hair by shaving or waxing. i can
defy a detrimental evolutionary mutation by wearing glasses to correct my
vision. the APA declassified homosexuality as a psychological disorder in
1973… sexual fluidity is widely considered a positive aspect of human
sexuality, and is observable in many other species. no evidence supports
your assertions. i put compassion before all things.
She is exceptionally cool…
Part 2: And then comes self-righteous anger ego-tripping to make people
attack each other in word or action, to force people to behave one way or
the other, & to punish those who have an opinion other than one’s own. I
rarely think about gender at all, & sexual orientation while sometimes
noticable, is no issue to interupt my inner peace over. (Continued)
the fact that you misspelled intelligence speaks of yours… kinsey was not
gay… he was famously bisexual, or rather believed in a spectrum of human
sexuality which was fluid and changeable. kinsey’s research methods were
questioned, yes. gold star. i didn’t bring up kinsey. but there is no
current evidence, or evidence pending, by any respected psychological or
psychiatric institution, which suggest that homosexuality is intrinsically
pathological or somehow evidence of mental instability.
>semiology is a widely taught and respected academic field. Your mistaking
linguistics for science, it cant be used here, and i dont care how many
tart sophist academics you have. It does not mean you can start to belive
the lies we tell ourselves, just because it is a language. You need to
learn to evaluate credibility of evidence. >definition that is commonly
accepted So is ‘american’ brand english, and legalise. Aquiescence proves
nothing. Continued 3
She looks like my roommate if my roommate would eat more and tan a little.
That roommate is also a friends wife…I cannot fap to this. And that is
terrible.
the evidence of semiological study, and cultural anthropology, bears a lot
on this argument. and it is evidence, phenomenologically investigate,
statistically evaluated evidence. but you overlook the fact that there is
no scientific evidence to support your argument. and there is to support
mine. in both the broader fields i have mentioned, and in evolutionary
science, in biology and psychology. you are questioning that word
homophobe… it is defined. like all the other words you are using
Continued 3 Dictionaries are made by companies and are not actually a
credible source. >incoherent, offensive, hateful, and poorly written. But
is it true? Even if i dont like it, if its adheres to the criteria of
credibility, i accept it. The things you say, just arnt credible. Their
picked and chosen to support your idiological bias. In science this is
called creating the conclusion and then looking for evidence to only
justify it. Spelling isnt logic. You cant do logic to save your life.
semiology is a widely taught and respected academic field. modern theories
of semiotics are indispensable to areas of study as disparate as
linguistics, cultural anthropology, and psychology. the definition that is
commonly accepted in our culture, which is dictionary defined, which is
understood by the general populace. the things you say are incoherent,
offensive, hateful, and poorly written. i engage them only in case a young
person sees them unchallenged. you can’t even spell reasons…
>i am a vegetarian, i defy my evolutionary predisposition to be omnivorous.
You are unhealthy, weak, you could not defend yourself. Well done. >i defy
the evolutionary purpose of body hair by shaving or waxing. Your attempt to
follow societies memes of attractiveness is a traidoff. >detrimental
evolutionary mutation That is not a mutation. Your body is not capable of
better vision, so your mind has tried to correct this to increase your
chances of survival. Continued.
the only replacement of truth here is the decimation and defamation of a
human heritage of fluid sexuality by the heteronormative, phallocentric
ideologies prevalent in western culture, and elsewhere, in contemporary
society. so if you came to this video looking for help… you do have a
heritage, you do have dignity, and you just need to keep learning to see
that. this idiot is filled with hate… i wish a world of vengeance on him,
that he would hurt a single youngster looking for some help
I’m a male lesbian and could so fall in love with her 🙂
I thought that was a man.
Part 3: I feel no pressure to fight anyone or anything,but when I see
genderism discrimination, I speak up with a peaceable attitude. Genderism
(men’s groups/women’s groups) divides the planet almost in half. John
Lennon got it right, as did the apostle Paul. All you need is love(God is
Love).